tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-51338031255035608492024-03-06T00:19:15.417-05:00L.I.F.E. Recovery InternationalAddiction Recovery BlogL.I.F.E. Ministries Internationalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01483271530296987347noreply@blogger.comBlogger341125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5133803125503560849.post-22039173478268455592016-04-21T17:27:00.001-05:002016-04-21T17:27:05.319-05:00Self Assessment for Sexual Addiction<div style="font-family: Times; font-size: 12.0pt; margin: 0in;">
It can often be
difficult to distinguish between a healthy sexual appetite, and sexual
addiction. Here are some questions to ask yourself if you think you are
struggling with sexual addiction</div>
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<li style="margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 0; vertical-align: middle;" value="1"><span style="font-family: Times; font-family: Times; font-size: 12.0pt; font-size: 12.0pt; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">Do you keep secrets about your
sexual behaviors from the people around you?</span></li>
<li style="margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 0; vertical-align: middle;"><span style="font-family: Times; font-size: 12.0pt;">Do you require a greater
variety, increased frequency, or more extreme sexual activities in order
to achieve the same level of excitement?</span></li>
<li style="margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 0; vertical-align: middle;"><span style="font-family: Times; font-size: 12.0pt;">Do you view pornography for
extensive amounts of time and/or does your pornography use interfere with
relationships or employment?</span></li>
<li style="margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 0; vertical-align: middle;"><span style="font-family: Times; font-size: 12.0pt;">Do you feel remorse, shame, or
guilt after having sex with someone?</span></li>
<li style="margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 0; vertical-align: middle;"><span style="font-family: Times; font-size: 12.0pt;">Do your sexual activities
involve coercion, violence, or the threat of disease?</span></li>
<li style="margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 0; vertical-align: middle;"><span style="font-family: Times; font-size: 12.0pt;">Has your sexual behavior ever
left you feeling hopeless, shameful, or alienated from others?</span></li>
<li style="margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 0; vertical-align: middle;"><span style="font-family: Times; font-size: 12.0pt;">Do you have trouble stopping
your sexual behavior when you know it is inappropriate and/or dangerous?</span></li>
<li style="margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 0; vertical-align: middle;"><span style="font-family: Times; font-size: 12.0pt;">Have you made promises to
yourself or someone else to change some form of your sexual activity only
to break them later?</span></li>
<li style="margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 0; vertical-align: middle;"><span style="font-family: Times; font-size: 12.0pt;">Have your sexual activities
interfered with some aspect of your professional or personal life
(problems at work, loss of relationship, etc.)?</span></li>
<li style="margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 0; vertical-align: middle;"><span style="font-family: Times; font-size: 12.0pt;">Did your parents have ongoing
sexual or romantic problems?</span></li>
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If you answered
"yes" to one or more of these questions, it may be time to seek help.
Fortunately, L.I.F.E. Recovery International offers resources such as support
groups, and our seven principles of L.I.F.E. to help you on your journey to
recovery!</div>
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References:</div>
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"Self
Assessment" <a href="https://saa-recovery.org/IsSAAForYou/SelfAssessment/">https://saa-recovery.org/IsSAAForYou/SelfAssessment/</a></div>
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"Sexual Addiction
Assessment" <a href="https://www.recoveryranch.com/sexual-addiction-assessment/">https://www.recoveryranch.com/sexual-addiction-assessment/</a></div>
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L.I.F.E. Ministries is a Christ-centered support group ministry dedicated to encouraging, empowering, and equipping God's people to live everyday in sexual integrity.
Main Website: www.FreedomEveryday.org
Blog: http://livinginfreedomblog.blogspot.com</div>L.I.F.E. Ministries Internationalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01483271530296987347noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5133803125503560849.post-68479299895122580482016-04-18T18:45:00.001-05:002016-04-18T18:45:11.709-05:004 Health Benefits of Sex<div style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 12.0pt; margin: 0in;">
This blog
mostly focuses on the negative aspects of sexual addiction. However, sex is an
important aspect of our lives, and actually has many positive health benefits!</div>
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<li style="margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 0; vertical-align: middle;" value="1"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 12.0pt; font-size: 12.0pt; font-style: normal; font-weight: bold; font-weight: bold;">Improved Heart Health</span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 12.0pt; font-size: 12.0pt; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">: Research has shown that
sex is good for the heart. It is essentially an exercise, that raises your
heart rate and stimulates blood flow. In fact, a study published in the
Journal of Epidemiology and Community Health found that engaging in sex at
least twice a week reduced the risk of heart attack by half!</span></li>
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<li style="margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 0; vertical-align: middle;" value="2"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 12.0pt; font-size: 12.0pt; font-style: normal; font-weight: bold; font-weight: bold;">Better Night's Sleep</span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 12.0pt; font-size: 12.0pt; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">: Many people report
getting a deeper, more restful sleep after having sex. This could be due
to the hormone </span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 12.0pt; font-size: 12.0pt; font-style: italic; font-style: italic; font-weight: normal;">prolactin</span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 12.0pt; font-size: 12.0pt; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">, which
is released during orgasm. Prolactin levels are higher when we are asleep,
so the release of the hormone right before bed could lull us into a
restful state.</span></li>
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<li style="margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 0; vertical-align: middle;" value="3"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 12.0pt; font-size: 12.0pt; font-style: normal; font-weight: bold; font-weight: bold;">Minimized Pain</span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 12.0pt; font-size: 12.0pt; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">: Sex can also be a mild pain reliever. The hormones and
endorphins that are released during orgasm closely resemble morphine, and
they can effectively relieve pain. Several studies have also found that
women can get some relief from menstrual cramps after having an orgasm.</span></li>
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<li style="margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 0; vertical-align: middle;" value="4"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 12.0pt; font-size: 12.0pt; font-style: normal; font-weight: bold; font-weight: bold;">Glowing Skin</span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 12.0pt; font-size: 12.0pt; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">: Having sex regularly promotes the release of
testosterone and estrogen for men and women respectively, along with other
hormones that can keep skin looking young and vital. Estrogen also
promotes softer skin, and shiner hair. In a study conducted at the Royal
Edinburgh Hospital in Scotland, participants who were engaging in regular
sexual intercourse were perceived to be seven to twelve years younger than
their actual age!</span></li>
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This is
only a small list of the numerous benefits sex can have on your health. This is
why positive, healthy sexual behaviors are encouraged by L.I.F.E. Recovery
International. It is important to remember, however, that too much of a good
thing can turn bad. Remember to engage in healthy sexual activities, and if
your sexual habits are starting to become addictive, seek help!</div>
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt;">Reference: "The Hidden Health Benefits of Sex" by Cari Wira
Dineen </span><a href="http://www.womenshealthmag.com/health/health-benefits-of-sex"><span style="font-size: 11.0pt;">http://www.womenshealthmag.com/health/health-benefits-of-sex</span></a></div>
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L.I.F.E. Ministries is a Christ-centered support group ministry dedicated to encouraging, empowering, and equipping God's people to live everyday in sexual integrity.
Main Website: www.FreedomEveryday.org
Blog: http://livinginfreedomblog.blogspot.com</div>L.I.F.E. Ministries Internationalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01483271530296987347noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5133803125503560849.post-69777412671806164812016-04-16T16:59:00.000-05:002016-04-16T16:59:09.132-05:00Confronting a Spouse with Sex Addiction<div style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 12.0pt; margin: 0in;">
You have
noticed that your partner has been engaging in unhealthy sexual behaviors, and
suspect they are a sex addict. You think they should get help, or at least
admit their issue so it can be addressed - ignoring the problem will not make
it go away. Here are some things to keep in mind if and when you choose to
confront your spouse about their addiction.</div>
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Confronting
the sexual addict should be done in a deliberate, mindful, and careful way. Do
not approach them with anger or accusations, as it can elicit a defensive
response instead of a productive one. In order to make your partner feel less
attacked or cornered, try to use "I" statements, instead of
"you" statements. This emphasizes your own feelings and needs, and
shows the impact that their addiction has had on you as their partner.</div>
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Try to
remember that even though their addiction has hurt you, they are still a person
who you love and have a deep relationship with. You have the right to feel
angry and hurt, but try to express these feelings with compassion. Let them
know that you love them and only want the best for them. Offer help, and
encourage them to seek counseling or group therapy so they can better
themselves and help your relationship.</div>
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"Constructively
Confronting a Sex Addict" by Kay Jones</div>
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<a href="http://www.feedtherightwolf.org/2011/11/constructively-confronting-a-sex-addict/">http://www.feedtherightwolf.org/2011/11/constructively-confronting-a-sex-addict/</a></div>
<div class="blogger-post-footer">_______________________________
L.I.F.E. Ministries is a Christ-centered support group ministry dedicated to encouraging, empowering, and equipping God's people to live everyday in sexual integrity.
Main Website: www.FreedomEveryday.org
Blog: http://livinginfreedomblog.blogspot.com</div>L.I.F.E. Ministries Internationalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01483271530296987347noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5133803125503560849.post-41233114037432773082016-04-13T17:13:00.001-05:002016-04-13T17:13:45.430-05:003 Ways Sexual Addiction Can Negatively Impact Your Work Performance<div style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 12.0pt; margin: 0in;">
Sexual
addiction is a real problem that affects millions of people nationwide. It can
destroy relationships, cause emotional trauma, have physical implications, and
even effect your work performance.</div>
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affects productivity at work.</span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 12.0pt; font-size: 12.0pt; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;"> Research has shown that relationship problems and
divorce impact overall work performance more frequently than a death in
the family, serious illness, substance abuse, and depression. In fact, in
the year following a divorce, employees loose an average of over 170 hours
of work time. This is the equivalent of being absent for four weeks in one
calendar year.</span></li>
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<li style="margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 0; vertical-align: middle;" value="2"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 12.0pt; font-size: 12.0pt; font-style: normal; font-weight: bold; font-weight: bold;">Addictive behavior of a sexual nature can cross over
into the workplace, distract workers, and lead to inappropriate computer
use.</span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 12.0pt; font-size: 12.0pt; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;"> Compulsive viewing of pornography often comes with
sexual addiction. This can lead to an addict viewing porn during work
hours, and even on computers in their place of employment. Unhealthy use
of pornography and sexual behaviors outside of the workplace can also
impact performance, as addicts can stay up late viewing porn or
participating in sexual activities. This in turn can lead to sleep
deprivation and even guilt that negatively impacts their performance the
next day.</span></li>
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<li style="font-weight: bold; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 0; vertical-align: middle;" value="3"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 12.0pt; font-size: 12.0pt; font-style: normal; font-weight: bold; font-weight: bold;">Legal issues from inappropriate
computer use. </span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 12.0pt; font-size: 12.0pt; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; font-weight: normal;">Research has shown that
many companies find it necessary to fire employees because of their
inappropriate computer use in the workplace. Companies do not want to
encourage misuse of time, loss of productivity, and the hostile work
environment that sexually explicit content can create. In short, if you
are caught viewing pornography at work, you could be fired.</span></li>
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If you are
struggling with sexual addiction, seek help! L.I.F.E. Recovery International
believes that everyone deserves to live their life with sexual freedom and
integrity. You can beat this, and we will support you every step of the way!</div>
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Reference:<br />
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"Pornography, Sex Addiction, and the Work Place" <a href="http://sexual-sanity.com/2007/04/sex-addiction-and-the-work-place/">http://sexual-sanity.com/2007/04/sex-addiction-and-the-work-place/</a></div>
<div class="blogger-post-footer">_______________________________
L.I.F.E. Ministries is a Christ-centered support group ministry dedicated to encouraging, empowering, and equipping God's people to live everyday in sexual integrity.
Main Website: www.FreedomEveryday.org
Blog: http://livinginfreedomblog.blogspot.com</div>L.I.F.E. Ministries Internationalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01483271530296987347noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5133803125503560849.post-37101386396251642742016-04-11T17:24:00.001-05:002016-04-11T17:24:34.309-05:00Sexual Addiction in Teens<div style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 12.0pt; margin: 0in;">
Being a
teenager is not easy. Teens experience changes in their body, they have to
attend school and other activities, and prepare for college. Researchers have
found that teenagers in the U.S. are experiencing sexual experimentation
earlier than ever before. This can in part be attributed to internet sex sites,
and a heightened exposure to sexual material online and in music and TV.
Unfortunately for some teens, this can lead to obsessive or addictive thoughts
and behaviors when it comes to sex.</div>
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If you
think your teen is developing sexual addiction, pay attention to their
behavior. They may spend more time alone in their room, or attempt to keep
their internet activity a secret. Some teens also begin a sexual addiction
through "sexting," or sending sexually explicit pictures through text
message. Sexual addiction can lead to a loss of control for a teenager. They
can be unable to control sexual thoughts and feelings, or spend hours viewing
sexual material on the internet. This can lead to a loss of social connections,
and a decline in their academic progress.</div>
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Fortunately,
there are many ways to help teens who suffer from sexual addiction. There are
treatment centers that focus on helping teens learn new ways to cope with
triggers, and new techniques for handling stress. Be upfront with your
teenager. Have a conversation with them about sexual addiction, and encourage
them to engage in safe, healthy sexual behaviors. Professional therapists and
counselors can help parents and teens approach the subject, and learn ways to
keep open communication when it comes to sex and sexual addiction.</div>
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"Sexual
Addiction Rising Among Teens" <a href="https://www.addiction.com/3432/sexual-addiction-rising-teens/">https://www.addiction.com/3432/sexual-addiction-rising-teens/</a></div>
<div class="blogger-post-footer">_______________________________
L.I.F.E. Ministries is a Christ-centered support group ministry dedicated to encouraging, empowering, and equipping God's people to live everyday in sexual integrity.
Main Website: www.FreedomEveryday.org
Blog: http://livinginfreedomblog.blogspot.com</div>L.I.F.E. Ministries Internationalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01483271530296987347noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5133803125503560849.post-74379907001047806202016-04-07T16:42:00.000-05:002016-04-09T16:43:16.957-05:00Sex Addicts can Experience Withdrawal<div style="color: black; font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 12.0pt; margin: 0in;">
Have
you recently begun abstaining from sex in order to begin your recovery from
sexual addiction? Have you experienced irritability, anxiety, or agitation
during this time? If so, you could be experiencing withdrawal.</div>
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Similar
to drug addiction, sex addicts are addicted to the release of neurochemicals in
the brain's pleasure center. These chemicals are activated by stimulating
activities that the addict engages in, such as sexual activities, pornography,
and masturbation. When an addict stops engaging in such activities, they can
experience withdrawal symptoms. Some experts believe that letting go of sexual
addiction can be more painful than withdrawing from drugs.</div>
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Sexual
addicts usually experience the worst withdrawal symptoms during the first two
weeks of abstinence. Withdrawal symptoms include but are not limited to
depression, vomiting, sweating, tremors and shaking, inability to think
straight, hypersensitivity, despair, numbness, insecurity, and grief. Symptoms
can often change, or go from one extreme to another. The reason for the
symptoms is because the addict's mind, emotions, and spirit are being
rebalanced while healthy coping skills are learned.</div>
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It
is important that an addict braves the withdrawal symptoms, and does not give
in to the addiction. Recovering addicts can generate help from support groups,
therapists, and friends and family members. These symptoms will go away after
time, and every day that you do not give in to your addiction, you are one step
closer to recovery.</div>
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<span style="color: black; font-size: 12.0pt;">"Sexual Addiction Withdrawal Symptoms" </span><a href="http://sexualaddiction.org/sex-addiction-withdrawal-symptoms/"><span style="font-size: 11.0pt;">http://sexualaddiction.org/sex-addiction-withdrawal-symptoms/</span></a></div>
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Children
are sponges; they actively soak up information in order to learn about the
world around them. This is a good thing in positive learning environments and
family situations, but it can have a negative impact when the child has a
parent with unresolved sexual addiction.</div>
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<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Whether or not a child shows signs of
distress, growing up around sex addiction can have a significant negative
impact on their future. Having a parent with sex addiction does not mean a
child will grow up to be an addict, but it does increase the possibility that
they will experience abuse or trauma. Children can be given harmful information
about sex instead of appropriate, accurate, or useful information. They can
also experience shame or confusion about their own body, gender, and sexuality
when they see their parent participating in unhealthy sexual behaviors.
Furthermore, children can mirror their parent's disrespectful behaviors or
remarks about gender and sexuality. </div>
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Researchers
have found that even when a child is not fully aware of their parent's abnormal
behaviors, they may eventually replicate the behaviors themselves. Young
children have nothing to compare their parents' behavior to, and will grow up
thinking these behaviors are normal. If you are a sex addict with one or more
children, be aware of the huge impact that your behaviors have on your
children. Seek therapy, improve your behaviors, and communicate with your
child. Hopefully, with the help of your family and others around you, you can
learn to live with sexual freedom and integrity and encourage and model healthy
sexual behaviors in your children.</div>
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"Growing
up Around Sex Addiction: Impact on Children Part 2" by Linda Hatch <a href="http://blogs.psychcentral.com/sex-addiction/2013/01/growing-up-around-sex-addiction-impact-on-children-part-2/">http://blogs.psychcentral.com/sex-addiction/2013/01/growing-up-around-sex-addiction-impact-on-children-part-2/</a></div>
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Blog: http://livinginfreedomblog.blogspot.com</div>L.I.F.E. Ministries Internationalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01483271530296987347noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5133803125503560849.post-83656900431348378712016-04-01T17:57:00.000-05:002016-04-03T17:57:49.390-05:00Not Even Celebrities are Immune to Sexual Addiction <div style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 12.0pt; margin: 0in;">
Nobody is
immune to addiction. Millions of people struggle with sexual addiction around
the world. Hypersexuality is far-reaching, and does not discriminate - it
affects men, women, young people, old people, and even celebrities! This post
will discuss several celebrities that you may or may not know have struggled
with sexual addiction.</div>
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One of the
first celebrities to open up about their battle with sexual addiction is
Michael Douglas, a famous actor and director. Douglass admitted himself to an
addiction treatment center in 1990, bringing the concept of sexual addiction
into the public eye.</div>
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Motorcycle
mechanic and TV host, Jesse James, acknowledged that he was a sex addict after
cheating on his wife, famous movie actor Sandra Bullock. In an interview with
ABC news, James stated that his sexual addiction stemmed from childhood
physical and emotional abuse, inflicted on him by his father.</div>
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Among some
of the more well-known celebrity sex addicts are Tiger Woods, and Charlie
Sheen. Both the famous golfer and the TV actor faced significant attention from
the media regarding their addictions. Woods's addiction had a significant
impact on his marriage - he was faced with divorce after multiple women came
forward clean about their sexual relations with the golfer. Woods has since
stated that his sexually addictive behavior escalated over time, as he
developed a "tolerance" and needed more sexual encounters to fuel his
addictive desires. Sheen, on the other hand, perpetuated his sexual addiction
through the use of prostitutes, spending over $50,000 on their services. While
Sheen has never admitted to having a sex addiction, signs of hypersexuality
include repeated use of prostitutes, frequent visits to strip clubs, and sex
with multiple anonymous partners.</div>
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Hopefully,
this post will give you insight into the fact that sexual addiction can impact
anyone, at any time. You are not alone. Collaboration with others in the form
of group therapy and support groups have proven to be instrumentally effective
in treating sexual addiction. Lean on the support of others, and never give up!</div>
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Reference:</div>
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"When Sex is a Problem for the Rich and Famous" by Dennis Thompson Jr. http://www.everydayhealth.com/sexual-health-pictures/celebs-sex-addiction.aspx#05</div>
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Blog: http://livinginfreedomblog.blogspot.com</div>L.I.F.E. Ministries Internationalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01483271530296987347noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5133803125503560849.post-59508024465894188442016-03-30T15:00:00.000-05:002016-04-01T17:00:53.368-05:00The 7 Principles of Living in Freedom Everyday<div style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 12.0pt; margin: 0in;">
Here at
L.I.F.E. Recovery international, we do not utilize a 12 step program for
recovery. Instead, we use Dr. Mark Laaser's seven principles. Dr. Laaser has a
Ph.D. in psychology from the University of Iowa, and an M. Div. from Princeton
Theological Seminary. He has written over a dozen books, and is recognized
nationwide as a speaker. His writings have helped thousands to overcome their
battle with sexual addiction.</div>
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The first
principle for L.I.F.E. is acknowledging that our lives have become
unmanageable. We cannot hope to recover without admitting that we have a
problem. This is perhaps the most important step, as it allows us to begin our
journey.</div>
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The second
step is to believe in God, accept the grace offered through His Son Jesus
Christ, and surrender our lives and our wills to Him on a daily basis. Faith is
an important aspect of recovery, as it allows us to give ourselves up to a
higher power.</div>
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The third
step is to become aware of our own sins and weaknesses, and confess them to a
safe group of spiritual people. Group therapy is vital, as it allows us to
collaborate with others and share our experiences.</div>
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After
this, we seek accountability and growth in our character as children of God.
Owning up to our actions allows us to accept our own flaws, ask for
forgiveness, and move on in our journey to recovery.</div>
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The fifth
principle is exploring the wounds from our past, acknowledging our sinful
choices in response to those hurts, and allowing God to transform and heal our
hearts. True recovery cannot be achieved without first healing our wounds from
the past. We look to God to help us heal from these wounds, so we can be free
from them.</div>
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In
fellowship with other believers, we develop intimate relationships where we
celebrate God's transforming work in us and continue to address areas of
immaturity and weakness. This goes hand in hand with the third step, as we can
form these intimate relationships with others that are going through the same
process as us.</div>
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The final
principle of living in freedom everyday, is walking consistently with grace and
truth, carrying the message of Christ's healing to others, and pursuing a
vision of God's purpose for our lives. While the journey will never truly be
over, we can live with sexual freedom and integrity. It is important to share
our message with others, in an attempt to help them achieve the same freedom as
us.</div>
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 12.0pt;">These seven principles, as well as our statement of faith, and on-going
objectives can be found at </span><a href="https://www.freedomeveryday.org/index.php/about/"><span style="font-family: Calibri; font-size: 11.0pt;">https://www.freedomeveryday.org/index.php/about/</span></a></div>
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L.I.F.E. Ministries is a Christ-centered support group ministry dedicated to encouraging, empowering, and equipping God's people to live everyday in sexual integrity.
Main Website: www.FreedomEveryday.org
Blog: http://livinginfreedomblog.blogspot.com</div>L.I.F.E. Ministries Internationalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01483271530296987347noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5133803125503560849.post-63608847631220640712016-03-28T16:16:00.000-05:002016-04-01T16:17:15.320-05:00Childhood Trauma is Linked to Sexual Addiction in Adulthood<div style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 12.0pt; margin: 0in;">
Many
people who are battling with sexual addiction wonder "why me?"<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>People are curious to know why they are
suffering from sexually addictive and destructive behaviors. The truth is,
there is not one simple cause for sexual addiction. Research has shown,
however, that childhood trauma can play a role in predisposing someone to
sexual addiction.</div>
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When
someone experiences a trauma as a child, they sometimes attempt to reenact the
trauma by acting out in a sexually compulsive way. Traumatic experiences result
when a person does not have the necessary resources, support, and safety to
deal with the traumatizing event. Traumas can be in the form of a divorce,
parent abandonment, walking in on parents having sex, or even being molested by
an adult. These traumas can lay the groundwork for your subconscious to
continue to replay the scenario as an adult, and attempt to rectify your
negative feelings with sexually compulsive behavior. </div>
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When
people act out in a sexual way, it means that their sexual behavior is done to
avoid uncomfortable feelings and other facts. Sexual addiction involves
continuing to act out sexually in spite of negative consequences. Trauma fits
in with this because it is often the reason for the destructive sexual
behaviors that the person becomes addicted to.</div>
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If your
sexual addiction is a result of childhood trauma, you must heal the wounds that
you experienced as a child before you can recover from sexual addiction. This
is a process that takes time and commitment. Confronting your own feelings can
be uncomfortable, especially for those who have been attempting to avoid those
feelings through acting out sexually. There is hope, however. Everyone deserves
to live their lives with sexual freedom and integrity. Check out our website, <a href="https://www.freedomeveryday.org/">https://www.freedomeveryday.org</a> for
info on support groups in your area!</div>
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References:
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"Trauma
Can Create Template Which Feeds Sexual Addiction" by Carol Juergensen
Sheets <a href="http://www.themeadows.com/blog/item/19-trauma-can-create-template-which-feeds-sexual-addiction">http://www.themeadows.com/blog/item/19-trauma-can-create-template-which-feeds-sexual-addiction</a></div>
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"Sexual
Acting-Out as Response to Childhood Trauma" by William Lent <a href="http://www.newyorkpathways.com/trauma.html">http://www.newyorkpathways.com/trauma.html</a></div>
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Blog: http://livinginfreedomblog.blogspot.com</div>L.I.F.E. Ministries Internationalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01483271530296987347noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5133803125503560849.post-80752976314913261812016-03-23T15:41:00.000-05:002016-03-24T15:42:09.268-05:00Interesting Statistics on Sexual AddictionSexual addiction is a wide-ranging epidemic that is sweeping the nation. Here are some interesting factoids about hypersexuality including its impact on society, marriage, religion, and the internet.<br />
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Society</div>
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<li style="margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 0; vertical-align: middle;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 12.0pt;">It is estimated
that 12 to 30 million people suffer from sexual addiction in the United
States.</span></li>
<li style="margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 0; vertical-align: middle;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 12.0pt;">Sex is the number 1
topic searched on the internet.</span></li>
<li style="margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 0; vertical-align: middle;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 12.0pt;">Sexual addiction
was officially diagnosed under modern criteria in 1983.</span></li>
<li style="margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 0; vertical-align: middle;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 12.0pt;">Around 40 million
individuals are sexually involved with the internet in the U.S. alone.</span></li>
</ul>
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Marriage</div>
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<li style="margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 0; vertical-align: middle;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 12.0pt;">40% of women say
they emotionally withdraw from a partner with sexual addiction.</span></li>
<li style="margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 0; vertical-align: middle;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 12.0pt;">Betrayal is the
most common feeling that a partner with a sexual addict has.</span></li>
<li style="margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 0; vertical-align: middle;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 12.0pt;">The majority of
sexual addicts are not single, and they often have a history of cheating
within their relationships.</span></li>
</ul>
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Religion</div>
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<li style="margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 0; vertical-align: middle;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 12.0pt;">5 our of every 10
men in the church are struggling with a pornography issue.</span></li>
<li style="margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 0; vertical-align: middle;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 12.0pt;">54% of pastors have
admitted to viewing internet porn in the last year.</span></li>
<li style="margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 0; vertical-align: middle;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 12.0pt;">More than half of
men who identify as Evangelical Christian's admit to having an addiction
to pornography.</span></li>
<li style="margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 0; vertical-align: middle;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 12.0pt;">According to
pastors, the top five sexual issues that damage their congregation are
pornography addiction, sexually active, never-married adults, adultery of
married adults, sexually active teens, and sexual dissatisfaction.</span></li>
</ul>
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<li style="margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 0; vertical-align: middle;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 12.0pt;">25% of all search
engine requests are related to pornography.</span></li>
<li style="margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 0; vertical-align: middle;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 12.0pt;">12% of all internet
sites are pornographic.</span></li>
<li style="margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 0; vertical-align: middle;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 12.0pt;">2.5 billion emails
per day are related to pornography.</span></li>
<li style="margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 0; vertical-align: middle;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 12.0pt;">3 out of 4 sexual
addicts have admitted to posting naked photos of themselves on the
internet.</span></li>
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"Statistics
and other Reference Resources on the Impact of Pornography to Marriages,
Families, and Society" <a href="http://prodigalsinternational.org/statistics-on-sexual-addiction.html">http://prodigalsinternational.org/statistics-on-sexual-addiction.html</a></div>
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"39
Shocking Sexual Addiction Recovery Statistics" <a href="http://healthresearchfunding.org/39-shocking-sexual-addiction-recovery-statistics/">http://healthresearchfunding.org/39-shocking-sexual-addiction-recovery-statistics/</a></div>
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Your
partner is addicted to sex. You've talked to them, identified the problem, and
they are now seeking help. What you may not know, is that you could need help
two. Psychologists have identified six stages of recovery for the partners of
sexual addicts.</div>
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The first
stage takes place before the partner discovers the addict's behaviors. It is
called the developing stage, or the pre-discovery stage. In this stage, the
partner is completely unaware of their loved one's sexually destructive
behaviors. </div>
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The second
stage is called the crisis stage. This is when the partner discovers the
addicts sexually addictive behavior. The partner can now begin to gather
resources, or seek therapy.</div>
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The third
stage is shock. This can be characterized by numbness, avoidance, and even
conflict with the addict. You may feel anger, resentment, and hopelessness.
These feelings are normal, but they can be very painful.</div>
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Grief is
the fourth stage. During this stage, partners can find themselves looking more
inward to grieve their losses, instead of focusing on the addict's behavior.
This is why self-care usually increases in the grief stage.</div>
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The fifth
stage is repair. This happens when the partner pulls themselves out of their
grief, and focuses their attention into helping themselves. Because the
grieving process is over, partners are more emotionally stable.</div>
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The last
stage of recovery is growth. Feelings can be transformed from feeling
victimized, into feeling resilient. You have been through something awful, but
you got yourself through it. Partners come out on the other side and are fully
committed to healing.</div>
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Healing
and recovery are different for everyone. These stages can take months, or even
years for people to go through. Remember that even though you are not the one
who is addicted to sex, you still have to heal. Partners can really benefit
from professional treatment. Seek the help of therapists who specialize in
sexual addiction. There is always hope, and you and your partner can beat this
together!</div>
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt;">"6 Stages of Recovery for Partners of Sex Addicts" by
Alexandra Katehakis </span><a href="http://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2013/09/12/6-stages-of-recovery-for-partners-of-sex-addicts/"><span style="font-size: 11.0pt;">http://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2013/09/12/6-stages-of-recovery-for-partners-of-sex-addicts/</span></a></div>
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Main Website: www.FreedomEveryday.org
Blog: http://livinginfreedomblog.blogspot.com</div>L.I.F.E. Ministries Internationalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01483271530296987347noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5133803125503560849.post-39933050771111211992016-03-14T15:40:00.001-05:002016-03-14T15:40:38.815-05:00Sex Addiction vs. Drug Addiction: Are they related?<div style="color: black; font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 12.0pt; margin: 0in;">
Most
people would never put sex addiction and drug addiction in the same category.
They think sex and drugs are two completely different things, that are not
related to each other at all. What they do not realize, though, is that there
is a major link that connects sexual addiction a drug addiction. Have you ever
stopped to think what makes an addiction an addiction? It is chasing a feeling
that you get when certain chemical changes occur in the brain. Whether it is
the high you get from cocaine, or the feelings you get from having sex, an
addiction is an addiction, and that alone is what puts them in the same family.
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Many
times, drug addiction and se addiction can be even further linked together due
to the feelings of shame that a person might get after indulging their sex
addiction. Those "what did I just do" and "I can't believe I did
that again" feelings can overwhelm a sex addict after they finish chasing
that feeling they get from intercourse, and consequently that can send them
running right into the open arms of drugs, trying to chase away the guilt by
feeling high or just not feeling anything at all. </div>
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If
sex and/or drug addiction is something you can identify with, there is help!
The steps to recovery are hard, and doing it alone might seem unbearable.
L.I.F.E. Recovery International offers support for your addictions, and will
help you beat this!</div>
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<span style="color: black;">"The Link Between Drug Addiction and Sexual
Addiction" </span><a href="http://bradfordhealth.com/the-link-between-drug-addiction-and-sexual-addiction/"><span style="color: black;">http://bradfordhealth.com/the-link-between-drug-addiction-and-sexual-addiction/</span></a>
</div>
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Main Website: www.FreedomEveryday.org
Blog: http://livinginfreedomblog.blogspot.com</div>L.I.F.E. Ministries Internationalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01483271530296987347noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5133803125503560849.post-79507254996168580272016-03-09T13:57:00.000-05:002016-03-14T13:58:01.761-05:00Physical Consequences of Sexual Addiction<div style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 12.0pt; margin: 0in;">
Many
people are aware of the emotional implications of sexual addiction. It can
destroy relationships, make the addict feel alone, shameful, and isolated,
among other things. Because of decreased inhibitions and the need to have sex
whenever possible, sexual addiction can have serious physical consequences as
well.</div>
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Sexually
transmitted diseases are a very real possibility for someone with sex
addiction. The addict's participation in frequent, often unprotected sexual
encounters puts them at risk for contracting STDs such as HIV infection,
genital herpes, HPV, syphilis, gonorrhea, and many others. They also can put
their unknowing partners and/or spouses at risk for these STDs.</div>
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Sex
addicts also have an increased risk for unwanted pregnancies. The compulsive
need for sex can cause both men and women addicts to have sex without
protection, and this can lead to pregnancy that could be unwanted. Whether the
woman chooses to have the baby, give it up for adoption, or terminate the
unwanted pregnancy, it will have a lasting impact on all parties involved.</div>
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Seek help
before you or someone you love has to suffer the physical implications of
sexual addiction. L.I.F.E. Recovery International will support you every step
of the way!</div>
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References:</div>
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<br /></div>
<div style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; margin: 0in;">
<span style="font-size: 12.0pt;">"Consequences of Sex Addiction and Compulsivity" </span><a href="https://www.sexualrecovery.com/articles/consequences/"><span style="font-size: 11.0pt;">https://www.sexualrecovery.com/articles/consequences/</span></a></div>
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"The
Harmful Consequences of Sex Addiction" <a href="https://prescotthouse.net/harmful-consequences-sex-addiction/">https://prescotthouse.net/harmful-consequences-sex-addiction/</a></div>
<div class="blogger-post-footer">_______________________________
L.I.F.E. Ministries is a Christ-centered support group ministry dedicated to encouraging, empowering, and equipping God's people to live everyday in sexual integrity.
Main Website: www.FreedomEveryday.org
Blog: http://livinginfreedomblog.blogspot.com</div>L.I.F.E. Ministries Internationalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01483271530296987347noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5133803125503560849.post-45502226025263120142016-03-07T18:09:00.000-05:002016-03-08T18:09:55.253-05:00Common Causes of Sexual Addiction<div style="color: black; font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 12.0pt; margin: 0in;">
Sexual
Addiction is something that millions of people around the world struggle with.
It is destructive, having a negative impact on the addict and those around
them. But what causes this condition? Experts have identified a number of
elements that potentially cause sexual addiction.</div>
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One
thing scientists have seen in a good amount of sex addicts is biochemical
imbalances. Some sex addicts have shown high levels of neurotransmitters such
as dopamine, serotonin, and norepinephrine. This could partly explain why these
people experience increased euphoria when they participate in unhealthy sexual
activity.</div>
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Something
else that comes into play when dealing with sexual addiction is hormones,
specifically the sex hormone called androgen. This hormone has an affect on
libido, and can play a role in someone's addiction to sex.</div>
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Family
history can also predispose someone to sex addiction. Research has shown that a
high percentage of sexual addicts have been abused as a child. A history of
family substance abuse is also common among sex addicts.</div>
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If
you can identify with any of these risk factors or causes, and have a history
of destructive sexual behavior, you might be at risk for sexual addiction.
Start your journey to recovery today! We all deserve to live with sexual
integrity and freedom!</div>
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<span style="color: black;">"Causes & Risk Factors" </span><a href="http://www.hypersexualdisorders.com/causes-risk-factors/">http://www.hypersexualdisorders.com/causes-risk-factors/</a></div>
<div class="blogger-post-footer">_______________________________
L.I.F.E. Ministries is a Christ-centered support group ministry dedicated to encouraging, empowering, and equipping God's people to live everyday in sexual integrity.
Main Website: www.FreedomEveryday.org
Blog: http://livinginfreedomblog.blogspot.com</div>L.I.F.E. Ministries Internationalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01483271530296987347noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5133803125503560849.post-8122049166214878072016-03-05T19:27:00.002-05:002016-03-05T19:27:18.633-05:00Am I Addicted to Masturbation?<div style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 12.0pt; margin: 0in;">
Masturbation
is a healthy aspect of human sexuality. It can help people learn about
themselves in a sexual way without the pressure of another partner. It can even
boost libido, and help you gain confidence in yourself and your sexual
abilities. For some, however, masturbation can be a problem. It is possible to
be addicted to masturbation.</div>
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How do you
know if you're masturbation habits are healthy, or if they are starting to
become destructive? For starters, look out for compulsive masturbation. If you
find yourself masturbating excessively, and are unable to stop, it could be a
warning sign. Addicts often use masturbation as a self-soothing mechanism,
which can have harmful consequences. Another sign that you are addicted, is if
you are unable to stop. If you cannot change your masturbation habits, if you
have tried to stop and continue to fall back into the same habits, you could be
addicted to masturbating.</div>
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A third
warning sign of addiction is if you experience negative consequences as a
result of your masturbation habits. This could include but are not limited to
decreased sexual intimacy with others, relationship problems, isolation, and
depression. One thing that is common with sexual addicts, is if they know their
behaviors are having a negative impact on them, but they continue to
participate in these behaviors.</div>
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As I
stated in the opening of this post, masturbation can be healthy. In fact, there
are some situations in which sexual addict therapists suggest it as a tool for
recovery. Keeping that in mind, masturbation is very much a solo act. You are
the only one who knows your masturbation habits, and your motives behind these
behaviors. If masturbation is beginning to have a negative impact on you, it is
time to seek help. Seek therapy, or check out our website at <a href="applewebdata://3B3CE0AC-BD2F-433B-AB90-6F910C136833/www.freedomeveryday.org">www.freedomeveryday.org</a> for info on support
groups, and ways you can begin to help yourself!</div>
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<br /></div>
<div style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; margin: 0in;">
<span style="font-size: 12.0pt;">"Compulsive Masturbation with or without Porn - The Hidden Side of
Sex Addiction" by Robert Weiss </span><a href="http://www.robertweissmsw.com/compulsive-masturbation-with-or-without-porn-the-hidden-side-of-sex-addiction/"><span style="font-size: 11.0pt;">http://www.robertweissmsw.com/compulsive-masturbation-with-or-without-porn-the-hidden-side-of-sex-addiction/</span></a></div>
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"Should
Recovering Sex Addicts Masturbate? Here's the Formula" by Birmingham Maple
Clinic <a href="http://www.birminghammaple.com/10766/mental-health-update/should-recovering-sex-addicts-masturbate-heres-the-formula/">http://www.birminghammaple.com/10766/mental-health-update/should-recovering-sex-addicts-masturbate-heres-the-formula/</a></div>
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L.I.F.E. Ministries is a Christ-centered support group ministry dedicated to encouraging, empowering, and equipping God's people to live everyday in sexual integrity.
Main Website: www.FreedomEveryday.org
Blog: http://livinginfreedomblog.blogspot.com</div>L.I.F.E. Ministries Internationalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01483271530296987347noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5133803125503560849.post-12372129800603419362016-03-02T19:26:00.000-05:002016-03-05T19:26:51.400-05:00Sexual Addiction in Gay Men - Is it Different?<div style="color: black; font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 12.0pt; margin: 0in;">
Sexual
addiction is not a problem that exclusively impacts the heterosexual community.
It has shown to be quite a problem in the gay community as well. In fact,
studies have shown that almost ten percent of gay men are addicted to sex. A
person's sexual orientation does not make them a sex addict. People usually
begin to exhibit compulsive sexual behaviors because of their individual
psychological issues. Unfortunately individuals in the LGBT community face a
lot of oppression, rejection, discrimination, and intimidation that can put
them at risk for developing sexually addictive behaviors. </div>
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Gay
and straight men are equally susceptible to sex addiction, but straight men are
more likely to seek help. Gay males also often turn to sexual addiction as a
way to "self-medicate" the psychological issues they face in society.
There is also a difference in the way society views sexual freedom in
homosexuals vs heterosexuals. Homosexuals experience a culture of greater
sexual and social freedom than heterosexuals. While this can be a good thing,
these views can pose serious issues for gay men who are predisposed to
impulsive or compulsive sexual behavior.</div>
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Gay
men also face less societal consequences as a result of sexual addiction.
Before same sex marriage was legalized in 2015, there was less cultural
emphasis on people of the homosexual community to engage in long-term
relationships, and having children. For a lot of gay men, the threats that
encourage straight men to seek treatment, such as divorce, loss of parental
rights, etc., did not exist. </div>
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Even
though there are differences in gay and straight sexual addiction, they are
similar in many ways. They both face negative life consequences, and they both
engage in sexually destructive behaviors. Fortunately, gay-friendly sexual
addiction treatment centers exist. It takes some research, but there are
therapists out there that are equally sensitive to sexual addiction and gay
men's issues. Recovery can be achieved, and everyone deserves to live with
sexual integrity and freedom, regardless of sexual preference and orientation!</div>
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<span style="color: black;">"Cruise Control: Understanding Gay Men and Sex
Addiction" by Robert Weiss </span><a href="http://www.freedominstitute.org/cruise-control-understanding-gay-men-and-sex-addiction/">http://www.freedominstitute.org/cruise-control-understanding-gay-men-and-sex-addiction/</a></div>
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<span style="color: black;">"Is Sex Addiction Different for Gay Men?" </span><a href="https://www.sexualrecovery.com/blog/sex-addiction-gay-men/">https://www.sexualrecovery.com/blog/sex-addiction-gay-men/</a></div>
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L.I.F.E. Ministries is a Christ-centered support group ministry dedicated to encouraging, empowering, and equipping God's people to live everyday in sexual integrity.
Main Website: www.FreedomEveryday.org
Blog: http://livinginfreedomblog.blogspot.com</div>L.I.F.E. Ministries Internationalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01483271530296987347noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5133803125503560849.post-62556628778047434502016-02-29T16:47:00.000-05:002016-03-02T16:48:56.850-05:00Dating Apps are Dangerous for Sex Addicts<div style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 12.0pt; margin: 0in;">
Most
people are becoming familiar with popular "dating apps" such as
Tinder, Grindr, and OK cupid. These apps can be positive - they are a way to
meet people around you, make friends and potentially find love. Many people
have found significant others from Tinder and OK cupid, and Grindr is a way gay
people in the community can connect. Unfortunately, more often than not, people
use these apps as a way to "hook up," or participate in brief sexual
encounters. Instead of going to a bar or club with the intention of meeting
someone for a "one night stand," people can sit in their own home and
talk to many sexual suitors at once. While the apps themselves are not
dangerous, they present significant problems for those dealing with sexual
addiction. The recent onset of these apps make having sex with random people
easier now than it has ever been, which can be very dangerous for sex addicts.</div>
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In recent
years, more and more people are becoming aware of and being diagnosed with
sexual addiction. Some experts agree that this could be a side effect of the
rise of these dating apps. These apps provide access to essentially limitless
people who want casual, even anonymous sex. This perpetuates sexual addiction,
as addicts have an increased number of sexual opportunities that they can act
upon at any time. These apps can also cause people who are at risk for sexual
addiction to fall into potentially unhealthy sexual behaviors and patterns.</div>
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Dating
apps also present significant challenges for those who are working to recover
from sexual addiction. They provide readily available temptations to recovering
addicts, as they can use the apps to browse for sexual partners and participate
in compulsive sexual behaviors. Recovering addicts who are familiar with these
apps know that they are only a couple messages away from sex, and this can be
extremely difficult to resist.</div>
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These apps
are only problematic when an individual feels discomfort, guilt, and depression
that surrounds their activities. If you or someone you know is using dating
apps to facilitate unhealthy or compulsive sexual behaviors, it may be time to
seek help. L.I.F.E. Recovery offers access to tools that can help you learn to
live with sexual freedom and integrity. It is never too late to take the first
step!</div>
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"Has
Online Dating and Other 'Sexnonogy' Fueled Rise of Sex Addiction?" <a href="https://www.sundancecenter.com/news/has-online-dating-and-other-sexnology-fueled-rise-of-sex-addiction/">https://www.sundancecenter.com/news/has-online-dating-and-other-sexnology-fueled-rise-of-sex-addiction/</a></div>
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L.I.F.E. Ministries is a Christ-centered support group ministry dedicated to encouraging, empowering, and equipping God's people to live everyday in sexual integrity.
Main Website: www.FreedomEveryday.org
Blog: http://livinginfreedomblog.blogspot.com</div>L.I.F.E. Ministries Internationalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01483271530296987347noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5133803125503560849.post-82439014489967106512016-02-26T18:49:00.000-05:002016-02-27T18:50:19.887-05:00Should I go to Rehab for Sexual Addiction?<div style="color: black; font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 12.0pt; margin: 0in;">
Sexual
addiction is often hard for people to overcome. Many treatment options are
available, such as group therapy, cognitive behavioral therapy, and sometimes
medication. If you have tried one or more types of therapy and you think it
either isn't working or that you need more extensive help with recovery, a
sexual addiction rehab center could be a good option!</div>
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There
are two main types of rehab clinics for sexual addiction - inpatient, and
outpatient. Outpatient clinics are less formal, with patients attending
sessions during the day and returning home in the evening. This method is
usually used for people who have completed inpatient programs and want
follow-up treatment, or for people who feel their addiction is less extensive.</div>
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Inpatient
clinics, on the other hand are instrumentally helpful in treating addicts who
have a more long-term, serious sexual addiction. They differ from outpatients
because patients live at the facility for the duration of their treatment.
These centers offer the highest level of care, where trained specialists and
professionals are available 24 hours a day for treatment. This is a good option
for people who are not able to stop their sexually addictive behaviors without
assistance, or those who have tried to recover on their own without success.
One reason why inpatient sexual addiction clinics are so successful, is that
they allow people to focus entirely on their recovery, without the distractions
and challenges of everyday life. It also allows recovering addicts to interact
and share with others who face their same challenges and struggles, letting
them know they are not alone.</div>
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If
you believe your sexual addiction is too serious for you to treat by yourself,
or if you have tried one or multiple treatment options and failed, you may want
to look into a sexual addiction rehabilitation clinic. These facilities exist
across the nation, and have proven to be extremely effective in helping people
beat sexual addiction. Research facilities in your area, and find one that is
best suited for you! Always remember that there's hope for healing from sexual
addiction!</div>
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<span style="color: black; font-size: 12.0pt;">"Sex Addiction Treatment Program Options" </span><a href="http://www.psychguides.com/guides/sex-addiction-treatment-program-options/"><span style="font-size: 11.0pt;">http://www.psychguides.com/guides/sex-addiction-treatment-program-options/</span></a></div>
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"Choosing
the Best Inpatient Sex Addiction Rehab Center" <a href="http://www.rehabs.com/about/sex-addiction-rehabs/">http://www.rehabs.com/about/sex-addiction-rehabs/</a></div>
<div class="blogger-post-footer">_______________________________
L.I.F.E. Ministries is a Christ-centered support group ministry dedicated to encouraging, empowering, and equipping God's people to live everyday in sexual integrity.
Main Website: www.FreedomEveryday.org
Blog: http://livinginfreedomblog.blogspot.com</div>L.I.F.E. Ministries Internationalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01483271530296987347noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5133803125503560849.post-928991051037050912016-02-24T18:17:00.000-05:002016-02-25T18:17:52.499-05:00Sex Addiction is Different for Women<div style="color: black; font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 12.0pt; margin: 0in;">
Hypersexuality
is not a "one size fits all" disorder - men and women have different
motivations, behavior, and consequences when it comes to sex and sex addiction.
Some experts believe that the challenges faced by female sex addicts can even
be greater than those faced by males. Sexual addiction in women is often
misunderstood, misdiagnosed, and ineffectively treated.</div>
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The
goal for a lot of male sex addicts is often sexual stimulation, not a sexually
stimulating relationship. Men also maintain distinct emotional boundaries with
the object of their compulsive desires, and usually seek sex opportunities that
come from anonymous, disconnected "hookups." Men often become
disconnected and disinterested towards the person at the conclusion of their
sexually compulsive acts.</div>
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On
the other hand, women are oftentimes addicted to love and relationships, as
well as the sex that comes with it. "Love addicts" are addicted to
romance, intrigue, and/or fantasy that comes with relationships. This directly
contradicts the male sex addict, as a female love addict will compulsively seek
total immersion in a relationship, instead of remaining disconnected. The
obsession with finding an exhilarating relationship can be more compelling than
the desire for sex. They can seek multiple passionate, quick relationships that
are often unstable. Their euphoria escalates throughout the course of the
relationship, and stays until the relationship does not deliver the
"fix" anymore.</div>
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In
addition to this, women can also suffer greater consequences from sexual
addiction. Women are more prone to health concerns such as unwanted
pregnancies, or sexually transmitted diseases. They also face a higher
probability of physical harm like rape or battery, because they are often
smaller and physically weaker than men. Women also suffer unique emotional
consequences when it comes to the shame, embarrassment, and social judgment
that is associated with sexual addiction.</div>
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<span style="color: black; font-size: 12.0pt;">L.I.F.E. Recovery offers help and treatment options for
both men and women. Regardless of your gender or type of sexual addiction, you
deserve to live your life with sexual freedom and integrity. Check out our
website at<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></span><a href="https://www.freedomeveryday.org/"><span style="font-size: 11.0pt;">https://www.freedomeveryday.org</span></a><span style="font-size: 11.0pt;"> for more information!</span></div>
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"Female
Sex Addiction: Understanding Gender Differences" by Ross Rosenberg <a href="http://www.yourtango.com/experts/ross-rosenberg/female-sex-addiction-understanding-gender-differences">http://www.yourtango.com/experts/ross-rosenberg/female-sex-addiction-understanding-gender-differences</a></div>
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L.I.F.E. Ministries is a Christ-centered support group ministry dedicated to encouraging, empowering, and equipping God's people to live everyday in sexual integrity.
Main Website: www.FreedomEveryday.org
Blog: http://livinginfreedomblog.blogspot.com</div>L.I.F.E. Ministries Internationalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01483271530296987347noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5133803125503560849.post-85708701978717528372016-02-22T16:32:00.000-05:002016-02-24T16:32:31.595-05:00Treatments for Sexual Addiction<div style="color: black; font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 12.0pt; margin: 0in;">
<span style="font-size: 12pt;">Recovering from sexual addiction is hard - this is a fact that many of us must come to
terms with during our journey to sexual freedom and integrity. Fortunately,
there are a number of treatment options that exist in order to aid you on your
journey.</span></div>
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An
increasingly popular way to treat sexual addiction is cognitive behavioral
therapy, or CBT for short. CBT aims at correcting an addict's irrational
feelings, beliefs, and thoughts. This allows the addict to gain a healthier way
of viewing the world around them, which in turn can stop their unhealthy sexual
behavior. CBT can include role playing, writing in journals, and doing
assignments in special workbooks.</div>
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Some
sexual addicts choose to engage in individual therapy. This can help them
address and resolve underlying issues that contribute to their addiction.
Different forms of individual therapy include Freudian, humanistic, and object
centered. </div>
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Another
form of treatment is group therapy. This is a non-hostile environment where
addicts come together to share their experiences, and support each other on
their journey to recovery.</div>
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A
more specific form of group therapy is family and couples counseling. This can
help the addict rebuild trust and intimacy that they may have destroyed as a
result of their addiction. This form of therapy is more intimate than group
therapy, and offers a more personal approach.</div>
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The
final form of treatment for sexual addicts is medication. Medication is often
looked at as a last resort, but it can be effective. Some serotonin reuptake
inhibitors have proven to be effective in reducing the frequency and intensity
of sexually addictive urges. This allows the patient to focus on their
therapies, instead of only focusing on stopping their urges.</div>
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The
most important thing when deciding on a treatment option is choosing one that
is right for you. Everyone is different and everyone responds to treatment
differently. What works for one person may not work at all for another, and the
best way to figure out what works best for you is to keep an open mind, and try
everything at least once.</div>
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"Different
Treatment Options for Sexual Addiction" <a href="http://sexualaddiction.org/different-treatment-options-for-sexual-addiction/">http://sexualaddiction.org/different-treatment-options-for-sexual-addiction/</a></div>
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"The
many different options to getting sex addiction help" by Adi Jaffe <a href="https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/all-about-addiction/201001/the-many-different-options-getting-sex-addiction-help">https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/all-about-addiction/201001/the-many-different-options-getting-sex-addiction-help</a></div>
<div class="blogger-post-footer">_______________________________
L.I.F.E. Ministries is a Christ-centered support group ministry dedicated to encouraging, empowering, and equipping God's people to live everyday in sexual integrity.
Main Website: www.FreedomEveryday.org
Blog: http://livinginfreedomblog.blogspot.com</div>L.I.F.E. Ministries Internationalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01483271530296987347noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5133803125503560849.post-73428315971250117032016-02-21T17:59:00.001-05:002016-02-21T17:59:29.997-05:00Famous TV and Movie Star Publicizes Past Pornography Addiction<div style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 12.0pt; margin: 0in;">
If you
watch the show "Brooklyn Nine-Nine," or are familiar with popular
movies, you are probably familiar with the actor Terry Crews. Crews has
recently opened up about his battle with pornography addiction, posting a
Facebook video titled "Dirty Little Secret." In this video, he talks
about his addiction, stating that it really messed up his life in a lot of
ways. He says he didn’t tell anybody about it, and that allowed it to grow and
"get bad." When Crews realized the seriousness of his addiction and
saw the negative impact it had on his personal relationships and marriage, he
sought treatment and enrolled in a rehab program.</div>
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Terry
Crews is a very prominent and well respected public figure with a massive
following on social media. He has over 6 million followers on Facebook alone.
The fact that he is reaching out and educating so many people with his own
personal story is incredible. He is showing that you do not have to be afraid
to get help, and educating a lot of people on sexual and pornography addiction.
His openness and vulnerability is commendable, and hopefully it will encourage
people to seek help and treatment.</div>
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This
addiction is beatable - many celebrities like Terry, and every day people
are working to recover from this addiction. Everyone deserves to live their
life with sexual freedom and integrity. Check out our resources page at
L.I.F.E. Recovery International to see how you can begin your journey to
recovery today!</div>
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"'Brooklyn
Nine-Nine' actor, former NFL player discusses past pornography addiction"
by Lindsey Williams <a href="http://www.deseretnews.com/article/865647979/Brooklyn-Nine-Nine-actor-former-NFL-player-discusses-past-pornography-addiction.html?pg=all">http://www.deseretnews.com/article/865647979/Brooklyn-Nine-Nine-actor-former-NFL-player-discusses-past-pornography-addiction.html?pg=all</a></div>
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L.I.F.E. Ministries is a Christ-centered support group ministry dedicated to encouraging, empowering, and equipping God's people to live everyday in sexual integrity.
Main Website: www.FreedomEveryday.org
Blog: http://livinginfreedomblog.blogspot.com</div>L.I.F.E. Ministries Internationalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01483271530296987347noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5133803125503560849.post-58961045199362848932016-02-19T18:00:00.000-05:002016-02-21T18:00:52.513-05:00<div style="font-family: Calibri; font-size: 12.0pt; margin: 0in;">
A subject we have
touched on in the past is the impact sexual addiction can have on the spouse of
an addict. It can ruin relationships, block communication, and really take a
toll on the spouse, as well as the addict. Here are some signs to look out for if
you believe your husband, wife, girlfriend, boyfriend etc., is struggling with
sexual addiction.</div>
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Sign #1: They spend
a lot of time sneaking around.</div>
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If you notice your
partner has suddenly started staying late at work, talking on the phone to
people they wont tell you about, or doing suspicious activities on the
internet, they may be covering up some unhealthy sexual behaviors. They may
flip to another page when you look at their computer, set up secret email
accounts, or hide their cell phone in an attempt to keep their behavior a
secret.</div>
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Sign #2: You notice
a change in their demeanor.</div>
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If your partner is
struggling with sexual addiction, they may act differently around you. They
could become more secretive, private, unreliable, or irritable. They could also
become more biter or angry, characteristics that are very common with sexual addicts.</div>
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Sign #3: You
experience a lack of intimacy, and sexual interactions with your partner
change.</div>
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You may feel that
your partner is "tuned out" when they are around you. They could also
seem less available, or like they're avoiding you. Another thing to look out
for is if your sex life changes - if they avoid sex, want it more frequently, or
if they do things that they have never done before during sex. This could
include being uncharacteristically rough or demanding, requiring more
stimulation, or developing a preference for masturbation.</div>
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Sign #4: Your
partner is financially irresponsible.</div>
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Many sexual addicts
will secretly use family finances on their personal sexual needs and
activities. They could be spending money on porn, prostitutes, or other sexual
activities, while hiding this spending from you. They could also engage in
risky sexual behaviors that compromise their job.</div>
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These are only some
of the many warning signs of sexual addiction. If your partner exhibits one or
more of these characteristics, it may be a sign that they need help. Talk to
your partner, and encourage open communication. Make sure they know you are concerned
about their well-being, and encourage them to seek help. Let them know that you
can beat this together!</div>
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References:</div>
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"7 Signs Your
Partner is a Sex Addict" <a href="http://compulsionsolutions.com/7-signs-your-partner-is-a-sex-addict/">http://compulsionsolutions.com/7-signs-your-partner-is-a-sex-addict/</a></div>
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"12 Big Signs
You're in Love with a Sex Addict" by Patsy Rae Dawson</div>
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<a href="http://www.yourtango.com/experts/patsy-rae-dawson/12-ways-sexual-addicts-mistreat-their-family">http://www.yourtango.com/experts/patsy-rae-dawson/12-ways-sexual-addicts-mistreat-their-family</a></div>
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L.I.F.E. Ministries is a Christ-centered support group ministry dedicated to encouraging, empowering, and equipping God's people to live everyday in sexual integrity.
Main Website: www.FreedomEveryday.org
Blog: http://livinginfreedomblog.blogspot.com</div>L.I.F.E. Ministries Internationalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01483271530296987347noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5133803125503560849.post-47248001231363409872016-02-18T18:07:00.001-05:002016-02-18T18:07:52.916-05:00A New Approach to Sexual Addiction Recovery<div style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 12.0pt; margin: 0in;">
It is
common for animals such as dogs, cats and horses to aid those who suffer from a
wide range of conditions. They're cute, cuddly, gentle, and caring for another
living being can help people to learn how to care for themselves. In fact,
Desert Solace, a sexual addiction treatment center is using horses in
"equine assisted therapy," to help people recover from sexual
addiction.</div>
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Working
with horses has many benefits for sex addicts. It helps with connection and
communication, builds healthy relationships, teaches strong work ethic, and
gives addicts new responsibilities. The founder of this facility, Mark
Jorgensen, believes that horses naturally provide for our emotional needs in a
way that we don’t even recognize.</div>
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Horses are
naturally large and powerful creatures, and can come off as a little
intimidating to some people. This is actually a good thing, as it creates an
opportunity for those people to develop confidence through overcoming fear.
This in turn helps people gain the confidence to deal with other intimidating
and challenging situations in their life and battle with addiction.</div>
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One
important aspect of recovering sexual addiction is change - we must change
ourselves and our sexual behaviors to live a more positive and healthy
lifestyle. A horse will respond to the energy that it senses. If a person
changes themselves, horses respond to them differently. When an addict learns
to connect with and form a healthy relationship with a horse, they can learn to
also form healthy relationships with the people around them. This can
ultimately lead to them repairing relationships damaged by their addiction, and
creating new, positive relationships.</div>
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"Equine
Assisted Therapy Contributes to Recovery from Sexual Addiction" by Jerri
Jorgensen <a href="http://www.hometownstation.com/santa-clarita-latest-news/equine-assisted-therapy-contributes-to-recovery-from-sexual-addiction-166824">http://www.hometownstation.com/santa-clarita-latest-news/equine-assisted-therapy-contributes-to-recovery-from-sexual-addiction-166824</a></div>
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L.I.F.E. Ministries is a Christ-centered support group ministry dedicated to encouraging, empowering, and equipping God's people to live everyday in sexual integrity.
Main Website: www.FreedomEveryday.org
Blog: http://livinginfreedomblog.blogspot.com</div>L.I.F.E. Ministries Internationalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01483271530296987347noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5133803125503560849.post-14577121734393223412016-02-12T18:17:00.000-05:002016-02-17T18:17:47.908-05:00When should I seek help for sexual addiction<span style="-webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; color: black; font-family: wf_segoe-ui_normal, 'Segoe UI', 'Segoe WP', Tahoma, Arial, sans-serif; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; letter-spacing: normal; line-height: normal; orphans: auto; text-align: start; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; white-space: normal; widows: auto; word-spacing: 0px;"></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: 12pt;">Do you love sex? Of course, everyone loves sex! Passion for sex and a healthy sexual appetite are natural. It is important, however, to be able to distinguish between a healthy sexual appetite and the beginnings of sexual addiction. In this article I will attempt to give some information to help you determine if you are participating in healthy sexual behaviors, or if could possibly be addicted to sex and should seek professional help.</span></div>
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One important indicator for sexual addiction is a "double life." This could involve having a sexual partner on the side that your significant other is not aware of, sexual behaviors that you hide from friends and family, and other secretive sexual behaviors. While it is possible to cheat without being a sexual addict, sex addiction could be the cause if you have a strong compulsive desire to cheat even though you know it is detrimental to your relationship.</div>
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Something else to look out for is if your personal relationships are being negatively affected by your sexual behavior. If sex is so important to you that you willingly allow it to compromise your personal relationships, you might actually be addicted to sex. </div>
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Constantly seeking out new sexual behaviors could also be another warning sign to look out for. It is healthy and natural to want to switch up your sex life, but there is a fine line between wanting to explore your sexuality in a healthy way, and being reckless with your exploration. If you find that you need to seek out more and more sexual encounters in order to receive pleasure, you could be addicted.</div>
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Perhaps the strongest indicator for sex addiction is guilt and/or shame. It is problematic if you continuously engage in risky or unhealthy sexual behaviors and then feel guilty, shameful, or embarrassed about it after. These feelings are typically associated with sexual addiction, and could indicate that you need professional help.</div>
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If you identified with one or more of these indicators, it might be time to seek help. Recovery from sexual addiction is not easy, but the first and perhaps the hardest step is admitting to yourself and to others that you have a problem. After admittance, you can finally begin your journey to recovery.</div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt;">"When to get Professional Help for Sex Addiction" </span><a href="http://toromagazine.com/lifestyle/health/20160129/when-to-get-professional-help-for-sex-addiction" target="_blank"><span style="font-size: 11pt;">http://toromagazine.com/lifestyle/health/20160129/when-to-get-professional-help-for-sex-addiction</span></a></div>
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L.I.F.E. Ministries is a Christ-centered support group ministry dedicated to encouraging, empowering, and equipping God's people to live everyday in sexual integrity.
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